Stories of those who died in the mass shooting in San Bernardino

A group of local church members pray for residents who live in the neighborhood where Wednesday's police shootout with suspects took place, Thursday, Dec. 3, 2015, in San Bernardino, Calif. (AP Photo/Chris Carlson)

(AP) — Fourteen people were killed Wednesday when a county restaurant inspector and his wife opened fire on his co-workers at a staff holiday banquet in San Bernardino County, California.

The San Bernardino County Coroner has released the names of those killed in the shooting.

  • Shannon Johnson, 45, Los Angeles (DOB: 03/06/70)
  • Bennetta Bet-Badal, 46, Rialto (DOB: 03/08/69)
  • Aurora Godoy, 26, San Jacinto (DOB: 02/01/89)
  • Isaac Amanios, 60, Fontana (DOB: 06/29/55)
  • Larry Kaufman, 42, Rialto (DOB: 08/12/73)
  • Harry Bowman, 46, Upland (DOB: 06/08/69)
  • Yvette Velasco, 27, Fontana (DOB: 04/03/88)
  • Sierra Clayborn, 27, Moreno Valley (DOB: 06/15/88)
  • Robert Adams, 40, Yucaipa (DOB: 05/02/75)
  • Nicholas Thalasinos, 52, Colton (DOB: 10/14/63)
  • Tin Nguyen, 31, Santa Ana (DOB: 04/06/84)
  • Juan Espinoza, 50, Highland (DOB: 06/24/65)
  • Damian Meins, 58, Riverside (DOB: 02/02/57)
  • Michael Wetzel, 37, Lake Arrowhead (DOB: 04/29/78)

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Here are some of their stories.

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Nicholas Thalasinos, 52, identified as a Messianic Jew and passionately defended Israel, actively debating about religion in online forums and in person, his friends said. Only two weeks ago, Thalasinos was having a heated on-the-job discussion about the nature of Islam with Syed Rizwan Farook, his fellow restaurant inspector and the man police identified as the shooter.

Thalasinos’ friend, Kuuleme Stephens, told The Associated Press that she happened to call him while he was working with Farook, and that he brought her into their debate, loudly declaring that Farook “doesn’t agree that Islam is not a peaceful religion.” She heard Farook counter that Americans don’t understand Islam, and Thalasinos responded by saying “I don’t know how to talk with him,” she said.

Stephens said she didn’t sense any pending violence at the time, and it is not clear if their debates factored in the attack. Stephens said Thalasinos did not believe his co-worker would ever turn violent.

However, Stephens said his grieving wife told her later Thursday to tell the media that she now “believes her husband was martyred for his faith and beliefs.” It wasn’t immediately clear why Jennifer Thalasinos came to that conclusion.

Nicholas and Jennifer Thalasinos had recently renewed their marriage vows, and they appeared together frequently on his Facebook page.

“He was a wonderful person,” said Joey Shimoni, another friend. “A great husband and just a sweet soul.”

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Daniel Kaufman, 42, ran an independently owned coffee shop inside the Inland Regional Center where the county health workers were using a hall for their holiday banquet. The shop’s workers included people developmental disabilities, which can include epilepsy, autism and intellectual disabilities.
His death was confirmed by Eileen Richey, the executive director of the Association of Regional Center Agencies, who said his death “fills us with sorrow, knowing so many families are in mourning.”

Kaufman, 42, was an avid participant in the Original Renaissance Pleasure Faire in southern California each spring, said friend Katherine Panowicz, who had known him for 15 years.

She said he typically participated in parades, carrying either a pennant or a lance on a make-believe horse. The fair community is devastated to lose a friend with such a big smile, she said.

“It would change the entire environment of a room just because he had a big brilliant smile,” she said.

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Isaac Amanios, 60, was a supervising environmental health specialist.

NFL player Nat Berhe wrote on Twitter that Amanios was a relative.

“My cousin’s name is Isaac Amanios and he was a great human being. Thoughts and prayers are with my family back in CA.”

Berhe, who is on the injured reserve list for the New York Giants, is from San Bernardino. He began tweeting about the shooting when it happened — and then discovered his cousin was a victim.

“Just got word that one of my cousins was among the 14 killed yesterday, I’m so sick right now.”

The LA Times wrote that Amanios is survived by his wife and three children.

Chris Nwadike, a worker with the San Bernardino Department of Public Health, told The Associated Press that of all the employees in the environmental division, Syed Rizwan Farook — one of the shooters — was the friendliest with Amanios.

Nwadike said Amanios was originally from Eritrea and that he and Farook sometimes spoke Arabic together. Syed’s Arabic was not very good, Nwadike said.

The two also frequently left the office together on their way to restaurant inspections.

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Tin Nguyen, 31, was born in Vietnam.

Nguyen was 8 when her family left that country for the United States. After attending Cal State Fullerton, Nguyen worked as a food inspector with the county health department.

On Thursday, some of the small businesses that she inspected posted condolences about Nguyen.

“It was such a pleasure to have her as our Inspector,” wrote Darla’s Cake Design. “Many food facilities are nervous when the Health Inspector shows up….but we always had a pleasant experience along with laughter.”

“Her heart was bigger than the sun and her personality was addicting,” wrote friend Kim Oanh on Facebook.

She was supposed to get married at a Catholic church in 2017, her family told media outlets, and had been planning the wedding alongside her mother.

The day before Nguyen was killed, she celebrated her fiance’s 32nd birthday.
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Michael Raymond Wetzel’s slaying leaves his wife and six children without a husband and father. Friends and fellow church members appealed for help supporting his widow Renee, a stay-at-home mom in Lake Arrowhead, California.

“Michael was the most amazing person,” Renee Wetzel said in a statement, issued through her friend Celia Behar. The couple had five children from previous marriages and one child together.

“He was my best friend and an incredible father who was loved by all. I have never known a better person. He loved his work and his family so very much. Without him, this family will never be the same. We appreciate all the love and support that everyone is showing.”

Behar runs a blog for mothers where Renee Wetzel frequently posted, and she turned there to ask for prayers shortly after learning that her husband, an environmental health supervisor, could have been attacked. “My husband was in a meeting and a shooter came in. There are multiple people dead/shot. I can’t get a hold of him,” she wrote.
After last month’s deadly shootings in Paris, she posted a vacation photo on Facebook, overlain by the colors of the French flag.

After her husband’s death was confirmed, she posted a Bible passage: “When my heart is overwhelmed lead me to the rock that is higher than I.”

The Lil’ Mamas blog set up an online fundraiser for the Wetzel family on Thursday morning and quickly raised donations of more than $60,000.

Church of the Woods also asked its members to pray for the extended family: “Please continue to pray for Renee, his children, and his former wife Amy as they process this terrible tragedy and loss of their husband and father,” the church said in a statement.

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Damian Meins, 58, was passionate about serving his community, a message he took from the priests at his Catholic high school in Riverside and carried throughout his life.

Meins never strayed far from his church or its teachings, said Walter Hackett, who met Meins some 40-years ago in high school. “Service to others, helping others. He very much took that to heart,” said Hackett.

“Damian was a good, good guy. Funny and smart and tall. A real quick smile, very friendly and outgoing,” Hackett said. “It’s a real hard hit for all of us who knew him.”

Meins married his high school sweetheart, now a Catholic school principal, and they raised two daughters, one a teacher. Meins was fondly remembered as the guy who dressed up as Santa for school pictures, according to a parent’s social media posting Thursday.

Meins’ Facebook page, where he can be seen smiling with his family in front of the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco, says he studied business administration at the University of Redlands starting in 1991. In 1979, he graduated from UC Riverside. He was also retired from the County of Riverside after working there for 28 years.

In addition to working at the in the public health department in San Bernardino, Meins was an Extended Care Coordinator at St. Catherine of Alexandria School in Riverside, where he also helped kids create Christmas art projects and religious murals, Hackett said.
Meins received a Community Recognition Award for his work in Riverside, which was based on “compassion, courage, forgiveness, generosity, humility, inclusiveness, integrity, kindness, respect and service.”

According to the Press-Enterprise, he was the first victim identified. A living Rosary for the Meins family was held Thursday.

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Contributors include Associated Press writers Jonathan Drew in Raleigh, N.C.; Kunzelman reported from Baton Rouge, Louisiana; and Tamara Lush from St. Petersburg, Florida.

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